My best friend is trying to guilt me into a fight with my husband

Dear Dr. Patty Ann,

About a year ago my husband fixed my best friend’s car (he owns his own business) and charged her about $1500 (it was a big job). She went in to pick up her car and gave him $400 toward it saying she would never not pay him because of our friendship. Well 2 wks later when we were curious she said the car was not fixed. And they had to take it elsewhere. They NEVER said a word about anything like this til then. So long story short we quit speaking for a few months and now are trying to be friends again. I was telling a friend how my bf and I had to kind of keep our friendship away from my husband and she heard about it. She knew that I wouldn’t tell him even tho she knew I was talking to him. Well now she’s mad even tho I have apologized for telling someone. Now she’s trying to guilt me into starting a fight with my husband and shoving our friendship down his throat. My husband doesn’t even want her in our house. What do I do?

– Betrayed in Illinois

Dear Betrayed,

Thanks for reaching out to me! Your loyalty – first and foremost needs to be with your husband! Tell him you started speaking to your girlfriend and that you regret going behind his back!

Dr. Patty Ann
Relationship Advice Expert

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